Cremation Myths: Common Misconceptions and the Real Facts October 26, 2024

As cremation continues to rise in popularity across the world, misconceptions surrounding the process also persist. While cremation offers families flexibility, affordability, and more personalized options for honoring their loved ones, it’s often accompanied by myths that can cause confusion. Let’s explore some of the most common misconceptions about cremation and unveil the facts behind them.

Myth 1: Cremation is Always Cheaper Than Burial

It’s a common belief that cremation is always the more affordable option when compared to traditional burial. However, this isn’t always the case. While cremation can indeed cost less due to the elimination of expenses like embalming, caskets, and large burial plots, the final cost of cremation varies based on several factors.

For instance, costs can increase depending on the type of urn you choose, whether you opt for a viewing or memorial service, and other personal preferences. In fact, some simple burials may end up being more cost-effective than elaborate cremation services. It’s important to weigh your options carefully, considering exactly what kind of services you are looking for.

Myth 2: Cremation Precludes a Traditional Funeral

Another myth is that cremation eliminates the possibility of having a traditional funeral service. In reality, cremation can be just as flexible as burial. Many families hold a memorial service before or after the cremation, often with the cremated remains present in an urn, or opt for a traditional viewing before cremation takes place.

Moreover, biodegradable urns are available for those who wish to have a more eco-friendly burial following cremation. You can still create a deeply personal and meaningful experience for your loved ones with cremation, and there are plenty of options to make the service as traditional or as unique as desired.

Myth 3: Cremation is Harmful to the Environment

While cremation is often viewed as an eco-friendlier alternative to burial, it’s important to acknowledge the environmental impact it has. Although it avoids some of the downsides of traditional burials—such as embalming chemicals and large land use—cremation still emits pollutants like carbon dioxide, sulfur dioxide, and mercury into the atmosphere.

However, innovations like water cremation (also known as alkaline hydrolysis) are gaining traction as greener alternatives. Water cremation uses a process that dissolves the body with less energy consumption and fewer emissions, offering an environmentally friendly option for families. *Alkaline hydrolysis/water cremation is not currently available in New York State.

Myth 4: You Might Receive the Wrong Cremated Remains

One of the most common fears families have is the possibility of receiving someone else’s cremated remains. Thankfully, this is an extremely rare occurrence due to the stringent tracking and identification systems crematories use. Each body is assigned a unique stainless steel ID tag that follows it through the entire process, ensuring that the remains are correctly identified.

Moreover, cremation facilities follow strict protocols, including documentation and tracking systems, to ensure that families receive the cremated remains of their loved one. Families also have the option to witness the initiation of cremation if they want further peace of mind.

Myth 5: Scattering Cremated Remains is Illegal

Another misconception is that scattering cremated remains is against the law. While it’s important to check the regulations in your area, scattering cremated remains is legal in many places, including public parks, oceans, and other meaningful locations. Private landowners may require permission before scattering, but with the appropriate permissions, families can honor their loved ones in many ways.

Options like scattering gardens or designated public spaces often provide the opportunity to scatter cremated remains legally and respectfully. Always check local guidelines to ensure compliance with rules and environmental considerations.

Myth 6: Cremation is Disrespectful to Religious Beliefs

There’s a persistent myth that cremation is forbidden in certain religious traditions, making it a disrespectful option. However, attitudes toward cremation have shifted across many religious communities over time.

For example, the Roman Catholic Church, which previously forbade cremation, now allows it as long as the cremated remains are buried or stored in a sacred place. Other religions such as Buddhism and Hinduism embrace cremation as a traditional practice, while others like Islam and Judaism may prohibit it. It’s important to consult religious leaders to ensure cremation aligns with your spiritual beliefs.

Myth 7: Cremation Reduces a Body to Ashes

Many people believe that the term “ashes” accurately describes cremated remains, but this is a misconception. Cremation results in bone fragments, not ashes. After the cremation process, these fragments are pulverized into a coarse, sand-like powder, which is then referred to as cremated remains.

Understanding this can help families make more informed decisions about how to handle and memorialize their loved one’s remains.

Myth 8: Cremation is a Modern Trend

Cremation is often thought of as a modern alternative to burial, but it’s far from a new trend. In fact, cremation has been practiced for thousands of years across various cultures, from the ancient Greeks and Romans to Buddhist and Hindu traditions.

While it may have gained increased popularity in recent decades, cremation is a time-honored tradition with deep historical roots. Its current rise in the U.S. reflects shifting cultural, economic, and environmental priorities, but the practice itself is as old as civilization.

A Path Forward: Choosing Cremation with Confidence

As more families explore cremation as an option for end-of-life arrangements, it’s crucial to have accurate information that dispels myths and empowers individuals to make informed decisions. Whether you choose cremation for its flexibility, environmental benefits, or personal meaning, it remains a dignified and respectful way to honor the life of a loved one.

If you’re considering cremation, take the time to research your options, consult with religious or cultural leaders, and speak to trusted cremation service providers. At Cremation Service of Western NY, we are here to provide clarity and guidance every step of the way, helping you navigate this deeply personal decision with compassion and confidence.